Contents
Etiquette vs. Manners
Table Manners
How to Set a Table
Guidelines for Proper Tipping
Making Introductions
Invitations and Thank-You Notes
Gift Giving and Receiving
Dating Etiquette
Business Etiquette
Dressing Formally
Wedding Etiquette
Funerals and Memorial Services
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Guidelines for Proper Tipping
Tipping—giving cash for services provided—used to be an acknowledgement only of
exceptional service, but in the United States it’s become an everyday practice. In fact, it’s rude not to tip workers in many service industries, even if the service is only mediocre.
Category |
Serviceperson |
Tip |
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Restaurants and bars |
Server |
20% in major cities; 15% elsewhere |
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Sommelier |
15% of wine bill |
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Coat check |
$1–2 per item |
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Maitre d’ |
$10–20 for special service |
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Bartender |
$1–2 per drink or 15–20% |
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Salons and spas |
Hairstylist |
15–20% |
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Shampooer |
$5 |
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Coat check |
$2 per coat |
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Facialist |
15–20% |
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Manicurist/pedicurist |
15–20% |
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Waxer |
15–20% |
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Masseur/masseuse |
15–20% |
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Travel |
Baggage handler |
$1–2 per bag |
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Shuttle bus driver |
$1 per bag |
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Bellhop |
$1–2 per bag |
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Maid |
$3–5 per person per night |
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Doorman |
$1–4 (depending on the hotel’s fanciness) |
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Room service |
15–20% if not included in bill |
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Concierge |
$5–10; $15 in big cities |
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Deliveries |
Food |
10–15% |
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Newspapers |
$10–30 annually during the holidays |
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Groceries |
At least $2 |
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Flowers |
At least $2 |
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Miscellaneous |
Movers |
Head mover: $25–50; others: $15–30 |
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Building superintendent |
$20–80 during the holidays |
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Doorman |
$35–80 during the holidays |
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Handyman |
$15–40 during the holidays |
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Shoe shiner |
$1–2 |
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Taxi driver |
20%, or at least $1 for low fares |
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Restroom attendant |
$1–2 |
Tipping in Foreign Countries
Tipping customs vary greatly from country to country. In Japan, for instance, tipping is
unnecessary. In Singapore, it is actually illegal. In South Africa, though, gas pump attendants will take offense if not tipped. In much of Europe, service is included in restaurant meals, but servers still expect extra. The going rate in South American countries is around 10% for restaurant services and taxis.
Before traveling to a new country, research its tipping customs to avoid offending local service workers.
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